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Ep. 227 - Shadow into Light Part Three: Using IFS in Couples Work

Andrea Atherton Episode 227

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In this powerful conclusion to the Shadow Into Light series, host Andrea Atherton takes you deep into the sacred process of healing your shadow through the lens of Internal Family Systems (IFS) and Jungian psychology. Discover how the parts of yourself you once rejected, the jealous one, the controller, the avoider, are not your enemies but wounded protectors longing for compassion. Andrea explores how IFS provides a roadmap for integrating these parts into conscious wholeness, offering a bridge between Carl Jung’s wisdom of shadow integration and Dr. Richard Schwartz’s transformative IFS model.

Through storytelling, Andrea brings to life a couple’s journey from reactivity to reconnection. You’ll witness how two partners learned to pause, unblend from their protectors, and speak from their Higher Selves, turning conflict into an opportunity for healing. This episode dives into the roles of protectors, managers, and exiles, showing how love deepens when both people learn to witness and soothe each other’s inner worlds. With poetic warmth and psychological depth, Andrea invites listeners to see relationships as sacred mirrors where the shadow can be integrated, not feared.

Join Andrea as she guides you toward Self-led intimacy, where love becomes less about perfection and more about presence. Whether you’re a therapist, couple, or spiritual seeker, this episode will illuminate how embracing your shadow creates emotional safety, lasting connection, and true inner freedom. 

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